Thanks <3 He's calmed down enough now to realise that, yes. The trouble is, he can be a bit paranoid sometimes, and so he takes it a lot more personally than he should; it's not him that she didn't want to tell, but the persona of dad which for her is a little different. But he gets it now, I think. I just hope he remembers it for when the next two girls get to this age, haha!