That's exactly what I said to him. Surely it's better that one half of our parental unit knows what's going on in her life, rather than none?
And yeah, I'm sure a lot of it is down to her being his little girl, which I actually think is half the reason why she didn't tell him in the first place. She wants him to keep on thinking about her like that, but her snogging boys isn't a part of that image.
And yeah, he's realised now that he overreacted a bit, although he's still unhappy that she doesn't seem to want to share with him. But that's his problem, one he has to deal with without trying to shoulder the blame onto others (ie, me, lol). I'm okay now, thanks. But it is a bit of an adrenaline rush when we argue like that, because he's a really big guy, and although he'd never hurt me (like, never ever), his shouting can sometimes set off an anxiety attack for me because I don't like loud noises. But yeah, I'm feeling a lot better now, thank you sweetie! <3
![[personal profile]](https://www.dreamwidth.org/img/silk/identity/user.png){kind=small}
(no subject)
Date: 2014-10-03 09:41 pm (UTC)And yeah, I'm sure a lot of it is down to her being his little girl, which I actually think is half the reason why she didn't tell him in the first place. She wants him to keep on thinking about her like that, but her snogging boys isn't a part of that image.
And yeah, he's realised now that he overreacted a bit, although he's still unhappy that she doesn't seem to want to share with him. But that's his problem, one he has to deal with without trying to shoulder the blame onto others (ie, me, lol). I'm okay now, thanks. But it is a bit of an adrenaline rush when we argue like that, because he's a really big guy, and although he'd never hurt me (like, never ever), his shouting can sometimes set off an anxiety attack for me because I don't like loud noises. But yeah, I'm feeling a lot better now, thank you sweetie! <3